Friday, July 12, 2013

They Never Did Anything They Hated or Anything They Did Not Want To Do


The 5 Habits of Extremely Successful People

Would you like to know what are the 
principles behind extremely successful people?  

I'm sure we all want to have 
more money, more fulfilling relationships, 
and more freedom to pursue our dreams 
and goals.


What it takes to Succeed

The truth is that successful people 
have some behaviors and habits 
in common even though they might
succeed in different career fields
and have different educational 
and/or cultural backgrounds.

The key to their success is their 
daily habits.

Habits are NOT easy to change.

Instead of trying to get rid of your old habits (the ones you wish they don't exist), try to do new effective habits that are practiced by extremely successful people.

This ensures that you are gradually 
replacing the bad ones with good ones. Introduce new and good ones and 
persevere, it will replace the bad 
habits over time.


Success is in the details, in your passion and persistence, just keep repeating the good habits that successful people follow.


The following are the Five (5) habits that are common among them:



Habit 1: a clear understanding of the purpose in everything you do.


Although the emphasis is on the results of your actions, but also you should pay more attention to the purpose of your actions as well. A clear purpose helps in achieving results while you are enjoying the process at the same time.


People tend to react to situations or 
don’t have a clear purpose in mind when doing something.

Make a firm decision to clarify what 
your goals and vision are for the future 
and break it down into activities for 
the month, for the week, for the day and 
down to the hour of the day. This helps 
in guiding you to every actions that you 
are going to do every single day.

For example, before you start checking 
your emails, or working, ask yourself: 
What is the goal of this action? 
Does it contribute to something or for a purpose?

Extremely successful people know what 
they want to achieve so naturally 
all their actions are timed to help 
them fulfill those goals.


Habit 2: Make quick and decisive decisions.


Consider the pros and cons. 

Winners tend to make quick and decisive decisions but if they like to change it afterwards, they carefully consider 
the pros and cons before they change it. 
The average person often make a decision 
or change their minds on the basis of what 
is before them and not on their life goals. 
Average people are easily destructed by 
what circumstances offer while extremely successful people are busy creating 
what they had in mind. Nothing is more attractive to them than their goals.

Tip: Winners are able to make quick 
decisions, because they are very much 
aware of their value hierarchy and 
beliefs and knowing their priorities 
and goals first hand.

Wrong business decision is one of 
the major reasons why entrepreneurs fail. 
To be successful as an entrepreneur, 
you must master the art of making right decision promptly. If the decisions 
you make constantly bring in positive 
results, then you’re on the right track.


Habit 3: Set specific dates for your plan.


Extremely successful people take 
small, smart steps toward their goals.

Make it a habit to write down 
the things you would like to 
accomplish for the next day, 
by week, month and year and 
prioritize the list.  Manage time 
prioritize and allocate and 
don’t let time manage you.

If you do not manage your time well, 
you are sure headed for failure. 
Time management skill is important 
if you want to be successful as an entrepreneur. Forming a habit of 
keeping and maximizing time is a must.


Habit 4: Maintain a diary.


Maintain a diary. Oprah does!

It is a tool for you to translate your thoughts and ideas in a tangible form.

This exercise will improve your 
own problem solving ability. Plus 
you can always look back and 
see how you analyze a situation or 
problem and if you can improve on it.

The first diary rule is to maintain flexibility. Use the diary as a way 
for re-expression of your ideas.

Second, let your thoughts flow free. 
Don’t be too concerned with 
grammatical errors. Flow and 
creativity should not be stifled.

Third, use the diary to write down 
your important values. Record special moments and events. Record what is 
going on in your life.

Fourth, write down any issues 
you have and the different ways you 
try to resolve it. That way you 
can reflect back to see if you have improved your problem solving ability 
while keeping track of your own thought processes.


Habit 5: Have a strong purpose in life and pursue it by doing the things you love.


All extremely successful people have 
a life mission. They want to contribute. 
Their main motivation is not money and paradoxically their non-monetary focus 
brings them the wealth and fulfillment 
that they are seeking for. Be clear on 
the reasons why you do certain things 
like starting a business or going for a certain career.

Do not let money be the main motivation factor; you need a stronger purpose 
to help you overcome obstacles in 
your chosen path. Trust me, they will 
come but if you have a strong “why”, 
you will find ways to overcome them.

If your only goal is to make money, 
as soon as you encounter any obstacles, 
you will throw in the towel because the 
"Why" is not strong enough to keep you 
going and face the challenges that 
might be presented to you in the future.

Here's how they make it work - 
all extremely successful people are doing things they want to do the most 
and manage to earn well through it.

So ensure you balance your passion 
and dreams with relevancy and timeliness. 
Ask yourself: Is it possible to 
structure your passion in a way that 
can add value to other people and there 
is a demand for it?

Remember your financial worth is 
a reflection of how much value you 
have added to other people’s lives.


Once you practice each one of these 
habits and let it become second nature 
to you, definitely improvements will 
be seen in your goal achievements and 
being successful.
 



Here’s a Filipino talent whom I’d 
describe as our own Steve Jobs in the 
haute couture fashion industry. 



Who is Michael Cinco? 


Micheal Cinco is a friend of mine. 
I remember the time when I used to 
tag along with his friends, “Angel”, 
Jonathan Montejo and others.  
They were then in grade six and
I was in grade 5.

Michael  and his friends were a group of “designers”. My time with them after 
class and sometimes on weekends hanging 
out in our town’s park was always with impromptu sketching and fashion shows.  


Photos of some of his captivating creations.















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